The secret is out… I read to my wife.

Hello everyone!  As this is my first real post on BookSwim’s Literary Life, I think I will start with a bit about who I am.  My name is Nick Ruffilo and I am the CIO/CTO of BookSwim (Basically I oversee all the technology and information that BookSwim has).  On top of all that, I am currently running our twitter account (@bookswim), as well as will now be a regular poster on our Literary Life blog.  I read quite a bit in high school and in college found myself reading quite a bit. After college, I kept up my reading and did quite a bit of writing as well.  Most of my writing was in fantasy - but I did take a break from my normal genre to write a very special book.  My wife is a huge reader and I decided that as a unique proposal, I would write her a book.  As would seem obvious - she said yes.  If you’re looking to get in touch with me, I’m active on GoodReads (http://www.goodreads.com/bookswimnick) or you can leave comments for me on any of my blog postings.

The Little Prince

A bit of backstory to this post - my wife is an extremely avid reader.  While I’ve never considered myself a voracious reader, I always read a bit more than all of my friends and pride myself on having read most of the “classics.” (Thank you highschool/college).  To explain what I mean by avid reader, my wife has - on more than one occasion - checked out the maximum number of books from the library at one time (50), while having a personal library of nearly 800 books (200 of them still unread).  She devours nearly 10 to 15 books a month while working a full-time job and partaking in non-reading activities.

The past few months have been busy for me with work as well as a few personal matters and sadly my reading habits became very poor.  My wife pointed out to me that I wasn’t reading and in defense I state, “I bet I’ve read quite a few books that you haven’t.”  Always up for the challenge, my wife waited patiently for me to list books so that she could proudly say that she’s read it.  To both our great surprise, I had read quite a few books that she had not.  When it came to some of the longer classics The Arabian Nights: Tales from One Thousand and One Nights and Canterbury Tales, it wasn’t a large shock that she had not read them, but when I came to some of the more quintessential children’s literature, I was shocked to hear she hadn’t read them.  Most notably, she had not read The Little Prince, If You Give a Mouse a Cookie, or Where the Wild Things Are.

Between my local library and my personal collection, I got a copy of those three amazing children’s novels and selected The Little Prince to read first.  My choice was partially selfish as the only time I had read the book was for French class, and I would be lying if I said that I understood more than 50% of what I read.  It all started about 2 weeks ago, but now, every night before going to sleep, I pick up where I have left off and I read a few pages of a classic to my wife.  I enjoy reading but most of all I enjoy sharing.

An open challenge to all readers:  If you have a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, son, daughter, niece, nephew, or even someone you babysit who has not read any of the following classics, take a few minutes a day to enlighten their lives by reading to them.

  • The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery
  • If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff
  • Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
  • The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
  • Green Eggs and Ham by Dr Seuss

Have a great day and keep on reading!

-Nick

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